You might think that sharing your goals with others will increase your chances of achieving them or builds up your confidence level. According to psychology Professors, the above fact is not true. In many studies it is identified that people who keep their intentions to themselves were more likely to achieve them than those who made them announce publicly. Therefore you should resist from sharing your big plan with others as not everybody is going to be happy about your success.
Yes, I do believe that some people are kind, loyal, and supportive but not everyone. Unfortunately, certain People can use your information to destroy your life or put you in an unexpected trouble. Therefore make sure that certain information which could affect your lives does not become public information.
And another reason why you should keep quiet on relationship matters is because the personal and emotional connection between the couple should only be shared within themselves. Unfortunately, the relationship therapists and counselors have found out from many cases that relationships ended due to outside interventions.
Many relationship problems are obviously caused by misunderstandings but also from outside interventions
Never invite outsiders to interfere into your family problems. Sharing your problems with others can ruin the trust in your marriage life. It is very important that you communicate directly to your spouse and get the problems sorted without looking for outsider’s advice.
Besides it, conflicts with in-laws is considered as one of the famous problems which married couples frequently face. Relationships with your in-laws can both be warm and difficult, totally depends on the information you are sharing. Therefore it is your responsibility that you should be precise with the information that you share.
This can be a bit more complicated issue but has to be always managed with care and affection. The extended or joint family, which is the family apart from your spouse and children, consists of parents, grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins and their children etc. There can be several issues that may arise between these members of the extended family. Priority, time together with and shares are common amongst them. But property and finance issues have become a recent problem which should never be discussed to people outside the involved parties.
But sharing family remedies with your spouse and close members of the family can help you articulate a solution.